it means that I can’t do it for someone else.
it is the realisation that I can’t control another.
which means the outcome is not in my hands.
it is to make the most of myself.
but to care about.
but to be supportive.
but to allow another to be a human being.
but to allow others to effect their own destinies.
but instead to search out my own shortcomings and to correct them.
but to take eacdh day as it comes, and to cherish myself in it.
but to try to become what I dream I can be.
but to grow and to live for the future.